Family Constellations - Orders Of Love ( EVENT)

By Ivana Markovic

We inherit the gifts, skills, difficulties and diseases of our ancestors.

Although we may be a thousand miles away, although we may not know our biological parents, although we may dislike them, we are the fruit of our family.  Life has arrived to us through them, and to them from their parents, and the parents of their parents.  For millions of years, Life has been travelling through all family members who preceded us, until it has arrived to us.

Family Constellations, created by Bert Hellinger, allows us to discover the bonds of family past; each involuntarily expressed through our feelings, desires, behaviours, reactions and diseases.  These invisible bonds of Love (entanglements) that generate our lives and that each of us metabolizes on its own way in our daily lives, in the form of a limitation or a chronic discomfort, when recognized and accepted, become new forces in the service of (our) Life.

​Current psychotherapy has long recognised that repressing personal traumatic experiences can lead to severe emotional illness for an individual.​  The Family Constellations Method, discovered and developed by Hellinger, takes these foundations further and reveals that unprocessed trauma experienced by prior generations can also severely impact the lives of their descendants.  Family Constellations reveals the impact of these trans-generational events and makes them visible in a way that is both profound and deeply healing.

For those who feel that something is wrong with their life, who have discovered feelings or character traits that limit them, for those who are suffering fears, blockages , phobias, who feel they face several times the same obstacle, being in a circle of repetitions - either in love, in marriage, in the family, with parents, with children, in relationships, in separations, in success, money, etc.  What happens in the family and in relationships is often at the source of what is happening to us, and at the same time the  family itself and our relationships are  the source of healing.

We are committed to the development of people who approach Constellations, and we monitor each case individually , with the sole intention of being useful for their life and serve  them to  find who they are.

WHAT IS THIS EVENT ABOUT:

This workshop is about two important subjects: Abundance and Prosperity.

Money is an energy of gratefulness that reaches us when we produce something that serves other people.  So, in modern society we call it money, whilst in other times it was a proportional exchange for what that person felt they had received. 

Abundance or prosperity comes from the feeling of gratefulness.  A grateful person is someone who is going to attract money.

The Orders of Abundance have certain rules:

The first rule is:  It is necessary to feel an attitude of gratefulness towards Life.
The second is:  To take your parents, the way they are.  To take them means to accept them unconditionally, exactly as they are.  Independently of what has happened.  The first step is to take your mother and then your father.  Both of them.

Abundance and money are directly related to the acceptance of the mother as she is, since she is the gate to Life and the one who gives us our first nourishment. 

Prosperity is related to the father: to take your father as he is, since he is the one that accompanies you towards relationships and exchanges.  If you haven’t accepted your mother, the exchange will not be possible even if you have accepted your father.  Only when both of them are accepted, and you are open to receiving Life and Love from them, that is when wealth arrives.

One should not forget that money is an answer to this movement of receiving and giving, giving and receiving, an answer to exchange.

WHO IS THE EVENT FOR:

·        For people who want to make intense personal growth and development from a systemic point of view of Family Constellations, covering their entire system and all meaningful relationships, to provide knowledge, understanding and healing in all the important dimensions of life: parents, children, family, relationships of all kinds, work, profession, karma, destiny, character, etc.

·        For those  who want to learn to direct Family Constellations Family Constellation (Classic Movements of the Soul, Soul Multidimensional Constellations) both individual and group sessions, from the innovative and comprehensive approach of  Integrative Constellations.

·        For those who are engaged in therapeutic work, whatever their personal orientation, and want to incorporate within it a wide systemic vision and approach to family constellations, such as psychologists, therapists, trainers, NLP coaching, regression therapists and flowers, etc.

·        For people to whom it may be useful to get into Orders of Love, because of their profession, established significant links with other people, for those who are permanently living in situations of emotional tension, conflict mediation, grief, loss ... such as teachers, lawyers, doctors, nurses, social workers, paraprofessionals, etc.

·        For those engaged in People who are engaged in the business world, businesses and organizations of all kinds, and want to apply the broader and systemic point of view, offered by Business  Constellations (management, management of human resources, leadership, coordination , economic management, customer relations, market research, etc.)

WHY SHOULD THEY CHOOSE TO COME TO YOUR EVENT?

So far, Integrative Constellations is currently  the largest space and known healing solution, both for individual and group sessions.

During one sole session, we act in different time frames and energy fields,  as well as our physical dimension.

We are multidimensional beings that are living simultaneously in different levels and dimensions,  according to certain hierarchy.  Integrative Constellations enables healing and solution in all of the different dimensions - all at once.

The field of Integrative Constellations is a completely new field, giving spectacular results, which adds a whole new dimension to that already known as the Constellations of Soul and Constellations of Spirit.  This field is defined as the Field of Human Healing and covers in a specific, own and integrative manner, all areas of activity such as:

·        The Laws of Abundance, Prosperity.

·        The laws of Creativity, Success and Money.

·        Psycho-social contexts, Individual and Group Therapy.

·        Psycho-therapy contexts to relationships.

·        Orphan contexts, adoption and fostering.

·        Contexts Emigration, Immigration and Social Inclusion.

·        Contexts Mediation and Conflict Resolution.

·        Contexts of Social Work, Social Intervention.

·        Relief and Welfare Intervention contexts.

·        Educational and Psycho-pedagogic contexts.

·        Business contexts.

·        Entrepreneurs, organizations and professionals.

·        Contexts of Health, Relief and Palliative Care.

The workshop is organized by Ivana Markovic, trained in Family Constellations by Bert Hellinger, and held by: 

Marga Angrill Carreras 

Gestalt therapist
Member of AETG

Trained in Hellinger Sciences with Bert and Sophie Hellinger
Floral therapist

 &

José Antonio Vidal Sánchez

Psychologist 
Gestalt therapist

Member of AETG

Trained in Hellinger Sciences with Bert and Sophie Hellinger

WHEN/WHERE?

Saturday, 27th and Sunday 28th June

From 9.30am to 8.30pm, with breaks

Grove Community Centre,

7, Bradmore Park Road,

London.    W6 0DT (Hammersmith)

COST?

Price per person: £180 
For members of the same family: £150 

Ivana Markovic  is a Hellinger Sciencia Constellation Facilitator. She is on Row 14, Emotional Health Page on our Practitioners' List.

The Power of Illness to Change Your Life - Book

By Kavi Jezzie Hockaday

In The Power of Illness to Change Your Life I share my own experience of how early emotional traumas led to lifestyle decisions, that finally led to a diagnosis of inflammatory bowel disease. I describe the long ten-year journey when I turned my back on the treatment that orthodox medicine offered me (lifetime medication and/or surgery), and pursued a natural course. This deeply profound journey took me to every level of being, from the physical to the emotional, mental and spiritual.

I also talk about some of the elements the reader might face if they decide to 'walk the path less trodden'. The healing path is mysterious, and certainly not a 'one size fits all' journey.

After going through such a deep and mysterious journey, one that took me to the depths of my being, brought me face to face with God, and challenged me physically over and over again, I realised that so many people might want to go the ‘natural healing route’ but are so discouraged by friends, family and those in apparent authority, that it was my karma and my responsibility to give voice to the power that illness offers to heal our lives.

It healed my broken heart, it healed my emotional wounds, it brought me to personal power, and it brought a level of peace that was previously unavailable to me.

When I consider what might have happened if, back in 2006 when I received my diagnosis and treatment plan, I had simply taken all the drugs and not questioned anything or walked out of the hospital, I shudder.

I feel blessed to have been given this opportunity to Know Myself deeply and intimately, and I see that this possibility is there for everyone who becomes ill. All we need is encouragement, support and sometimes some guidance by those who have walked some of the path.

Kavi is a spiritual and wellness coach. He is on our Practitioners' List on the Spiritual Page.

 

The Birth of The Ego of Our Son

By Ian Dixon

Since 2003 I have been experiencing life transformation experiences –prompted by... doctors telling me I had ‘terminal’ cancer with just 3 months of quality time left to live! I survived against impossible odds – my life has changed beyond recognition – my life experience has changed also – so very very much for the better. And, as a result of this work and mainly the sharing of The Journey – I discovered that I was able to
facilitate remarkable healing and life transformation – and in doing so, again and again I experienced great inner joy and love. 

I am a Journey Practitioner who is also a father. Over the years I have often found that all the therapies I have learned still are not reaching issues which seem pre-cognitive in timing i.e. issues arising from experiences before the age of two. After my son's birth I wrote this essay -I share it simply because I feel it is important for mothers to really be empowered at the time of Birth.

I believe that those first few hours and days are so important - they set the scene for the entire life of the new Being - how external factors are to be experienced. it is so very important, I feel, not just for individuals but also for humanity

Personal notes 15th August:

Today, without awareness the event was about to happen, I witnessed the birth of the ego of 7 day old Raphael!♥ from a place of love, and to conform to CZ regulations, we took him to the doctor for the initial check-up. We knew that she would required a blood sample - surely just a prick from his heel? ♥ what I witnessed was systematic physical abuse of a 7 day old baby by a medically qualified ...doctor - who appears to know little of trauma and considers a 7 day old baby as 'just another baby' ... Presumably without 'awareness' and without feelings? I feel sickened by the event - yes just one prick on the heel, but very prolonged systematic painful squeezing of the heel of a baby gradually becoming more and more alarmed and screaming - first 3 drops on a pad, then there was not enough so another three on that pad, then a second pad requiring 4 drops -then not enough so more squeezing of a screaming scared fragile tiny helpless being!!! And then there was not enough again and she wanted more squeezing of this fragile heal. 'Enough' - STOP - only then she stopped. ♥ why? Just in case he has a genetically inherited food intolerance? Is he healthy and eating well? Yes. Is there food intolerance in his ancestors? No. ♥ so why does the state require such genetic information? Why does it cause trauma to 7 day old babies? ♥ today I witnessed the birth of Raphael's ego. I wondered when and how it would happen?♥ I have witnessed, as a therapist, adults in their forties still traumatised and affected by simple childhood disempowerments in the name of medicine. These events do count - they do disempower - the infant is aware - the infant does have feelings. In the name of medicine - today what I witnessed was state abuse (torture?) of a helpless baby, a systematic disempowerment. A tragedy!♥ years ago I became aware after the event, doctors had decided to stitch up my daughter's chin - after a bad fall - without any sedation! When i heard I could hardly believe doctors would participate in such cruelty? ♥ birth of the ego is unavoidable I feel. What one can do is clear the trauma at an early age so the child becomes re-empowered. The work of the 'Journey for kids' is beautiful. Already Katerina and I have agreed Raphael will experience this at a young age. Maybe today has little impact on him? Maybe not? Awareness of reality, in all its colours is imperative for healthy survival. ♥ as a parent - from now on - I will be very aware of the lack of awareness of doctors and the medical professions. This will not happen again under my watch. ♥ meanwhile - all signs are Raphael is fine, healthy, happy and hungry. His mother is awesome in her love and caring. He is so very very lucky. ♥

Ian facilitates life transformations by helping clients discover and release suppressed emotions - that later surface in all sorts of ways - problems at work, difficulty finding a partner, marriage issues, anger, sexual, phobias, social difficulties, lack of self worth, frustration - finding inspiration and energy, many health issues. He is on Row 6 Spiritual Health Page on our Practitioners' List

Yoga Retreat ( EVENT)

By Kirsty May

1. What is the event about?

Yoga Retreat in Postash Barns, Suffolk.  20th-23rd February, 2015.

My aim of this retreat is for you to be healed, restored, relaxed and rejuvenated. We will connect back with nature. 

I will try to help you to come back to yourself, remember who you are, love yourself and feel grounded and present. By clearing blockages, rebalancing your mind, body....and spirit, I believe you will feel happier, more focused in your life and ready to face any challenge. I will do my best help you feel peace in your mind and love and happiness in your heart. I will try to help you manifest what you really want in life!

The Hatha Yoga class is for beginners and intermediate Yogis; I can vary the postures to suit all abilities. The style is fun and creative, yet focused and still challenging.


The Hatha flows and also has many influences from various disciplines and teachers. Yoga stretches, strengthens, tones, helps to align, and improves the health of the
entire body. My varied mix of guided meditations will help you in different areas of your life and help you to calm the mind and bring you into the present. 

We will do Pranayama, morning and evening, which will be amazingly beneficial to your mind and body. Pranayama (breath control) stimulates and brings oxygen to every tissue in the body, is said to remove all diseases, and destroys negative thought patterns, among many other benefits.

2. Who is the event for?

Beginner or intermediate yogis who love the countryside, outdoors, and want to relax and detox on the healthy Yoga and Meditation Retreat.

Retreat Plan:

Friday 
15:00: Arrive, settle in etc. Free time/activities/go for a walk 
18:00-19:45: Yoga, Pranayama & Meditation
20:00: Vegetarian Dinner
Free time. Relax in the retreat barn etc.  


Saturday 
Optional Silent Meditation
07:30-08:45: Morning Yoga, Pranayama & Meditation 
09:00:Vegetarian Breakfast
Free time. Explore/walk/optional activities tbc
13:30: Vegetarian Lunch
Free time. Explore/walk/local activities/have a massage/Reiki tbc
18:00-19:45: Yoga, Pranayama & Meditation 
20:00: Vegetarian Dinner
Free time to relax at the retreat barn etc. 

Sunday
Optional Silent Meditation
07:30-8:45: Morning Yoga, Pranayama & Meditation
09:00: Vegetarian Breakfast
Free time. Explore//walk/local activities tbc 
13:30: Vegetarian Lunch 
Free time. Explore/walk/activities
18:00-19:45: Yoga, Pranayama & Meditation 
20:00: Vegetarian Dinner
Free time to relax at the retreat barn etc. 

Monday
Optional Silent Meditation
07.30-08.45: Yoga, Pranayama & Meditation
09:00: Vegetarian Breakfast 
10:30: Leave retreat.

3. Why should you choose to come to the retreat? 

The beautiful Postash Barns is situated in the countryside of Suffolk. As well as 2 x Yoga and Meditation classes daily, we will be having healthy vegetarian breakfast,
lunch and dinner, going on woodland walks, a hulahoop class if it is wanted, art, beach walks and relaxation.The accommodation is spread over two different barns on the farm. We have a log burner to keep warm and cozy in the evenings. The farm has a pony called Moonie, pygmy goats, chickens, lambs and geese. There are many things to do in the area such as walking in the woodland, cycling, visiting nearby beaches, massages.Potash Barns is located in the hamlet of Brundish near Framlingham, amidst the quiet beauty of rural mid-Suffolk. Situated within 20 minutes of the Suffolk Heritage Coast,Potash Barns is the ideal holiday and retreat destination.

4. Where is it happening? 

Potash Barns, Woodbridge, Suffolk.

5. How much does it cost?

£330

Kimberly from Kiss the Sky will be providing Chakra Balancing and Reiki healing treatments all weekend at my Potash Barns Yoga Retreat in February 2015. Kimberly is an experienced intuitive healer, and a natural empath. You can book an appointment in advance or during the retreat - Reiki is £15 per session.

Kirsty May, Sivananda and a Hatha Yoga Teacher, trained in India and has been teaching for 8 years.  Her classes involve hatha asanas, various meditations, and pranayama, they have a relaxed friendly vibe, but are still challenging.  She is in Row 52, Physical Health page on our Practitioners' List.

 

EMF Summit ( EVENT)

By Alison Heath

Electromagnetic Fields (EMFs) are everywhere. The low level radiation has serious health consequences and experts are predicting a major crisis if we don't wake up and make some changes NOW. There is an exponential rise in brain tumours and childhood leukemia. Wireless in schools has caused microwave weapons experts, epidemiologists, and scientists to come out of retirement to speak up and warn us of the dangers. People need to know about this invisible health threat before it is too late. We can learn to safely use our technology. Awareness precedes action. For the sake of your health, and those of then children of the world who represent our most precious resources, I am hosting the EMF Summit.

1. What is the event about?

World experts will tell you Everything You Need To Protect Yourself from the dangers of
Electromagnetic Field Radiation and Dirty Electricity.  You will also Discover the
Healing Effects of Pulsed Electromagnetic Field (PEMF) Therapy.

 

2. Who is the event for?

 

Anyone that is concerned with protecting themselves and their families.

 

 

3. Why should they choose to come to your event?  

Alison is the host of Your Vibrant Health Secrets free multi-expert interview series. She has been helping people and physicians, for 25 years, to learn to turn back the clock on aging.. she cured herself of "incurable" conditions: a leg doctors were going to amputate, bipolar, and hypothyroidism. Her recent experience of developing electromagnetic hypersensitivity prompted her to interview world class experts in the field to bring you the latest research on how our toys and gadgets are killing us.

 

4. Where is it happening?

 

The event is online.

 

 

5. How much does it cost?

 

The event is free to attend.

Alison Heath, Longevity Rescuer, is in row 27 on our Practitioners' List
 

The New You! ( EVENT)

By Derek Mills

 



What are most people missing?

 

Disclaimer:  I have a vested interest in helping people to discover the right path to happiness and success. This is based upon intuition, instinct, accessing my greatest self, research and the feedback of audiences all over the globe. My vested interest is that I'm part of this world, and to the degree that I can help those struggling with this issue, I help the world and I help myself.  Many of you will know that I had a revolution in my life just over a decade ago and it led me to shift from failure, near depression and almost broke, to happiness and success. Until then I had spent 17 years looking outside of myself for the ingredient to success and happiness. Yet I discovered that we all have practical tools within us ALREADY which we can use to live an infinitely more fulfilling and meaningful life for ourselves and others.

 

There is a missing ingredient to greater joy and whatever it is good human beings call ‘success’, it's all based upon the setting of and living by Daily Standards.

 

When we live our lives by Daily Standards, set from within ourselves or our organisation, and we commit to living from that place for just one day, today, we excel beyond any reasonable expectation and more. We enjoy the journey.

I have to admit when I first found this 'missing-link', this vital ingredient to personal happiness and success, I was at first shocked, then elated, then transformed.

 

YOUR PERFECT LIFE

Standards come from the TrueSelf or the ‘real you’. When we set our Standards from within and live by them for just Today, we inhabit a congruent life and we create therefore the life that we were meant to live. Most of our individual Standards have been formed consciously or unconsciously throughout our life. But have you ever considered whether your Standards honour and serve you? In doing so, do they allow you to honour and serve others?

By going into your TrueSelf you can gain the wisdom and guidance to set Daily Standards. Setting Standards helps you to be happy in the present moment, and not look to the future for your happiness and success; as is often the case with goals.

Upon review, there are seven key areas of our lives in which we can begin immediately, today, to set new Life Standards:

 

1. Personal Health & Fitness

2. Environment – (What surrounds us affects us. What is within us affects us)

3. Relationships

4. Family

5. Emotions

6. Career or Job

7. Time (How we live – not how long we live; how we serve and use our time on earth)

 

How do we Set New Standards to give us the success and happiness we dream of?

 

We undertake a Standards Five-Step Reframe™. The 5 steps are:

 

1.     Review your existing Standards in the key areas of your life. What was the source of those Standards?

2.     Realise what Standards are honouring and serving you. Also consider what Standards help you to honour and serve others? Which ones are harming others or the person that you now are?

3.     Release the Standards that are harming you the most (there are many healthy and congruent ways to do this);

4.     Reset new Standards that honour and serve the person you are today and which allow you to honour and serve others;

5.     Re-commit today and then daily to your new Standards.

 

‘When we live by Standards set from within, we become happy and successful TODAY!’

 

True success and happiness is created by thinking and living by Daily Standards. When we do this, we wake up and find ourselves more powerful than we previously dared to dream. We discover parts of ourselves we didn’t know, our gifts and talents begin to pour out in a way that they never have before, and we get to make a positive difference not just to our immediate surroundings, but to the broader world at large.

 

This plus a lot more will be shared at our upcoming event ‘Create Your Best Life in a Day’ with Derek Mills and Michael James. The event provides the opportunity and practical tools to access your greatest self, TrueSelf, to set in motion the Standards which will shape the rest of your life, one day at a time. It's a fun day because everybody enjoys creating and being their greatest self.

 

It's the chance to discover more of your truth, set new Standards from that place and to realise that you are more powerful than you had ever dreamed.

 



 

1. What is the event about?

 

This is a very unique workshop where Derek Mills and Michael James share how to create or re-create your life, your best life, on the day. Based upon a collective 40 years of experience and research, both teachers will create a space where each person attending will be able to 'get' themselves for maybe the first time. Then everyone will be taken through a process and a series of practical steps in order to realise who they truly are and what is possible and true for them.  Moreover, each attendee will then have a Standards blueprint, which they can use as the genesis of what we call your 'best life'. We share insights into the meaning of TrueSelf and how to get and stay in that place. Michael will also share how applying the Law of Attraction into your everyday life, will cause you to ‘live in the now’.

2. Who is the event for?

 

Anyone who would like better health, greater wealth, improved relationships, to feel good about your image, to understand more about yourself, to try new things, to have a more fulfilling career, to be a more contented parent, to learn new skills, to embrace life's challenges, to feel happier and to live an empowered life as your TrueSelf.

 

3. Why should they choose to come to your event?

 

Derek has spoken to audiences from 7 to 7000 and has inspired people around the world to change their lives for the better. Derek is known as the Standards Guy and shares with you how to set Daily Standards instead of goals to achieve happiness and success in your personal and business life.

 

This approach and philosophy is unique. No other event will have this approach because Derek is the creator of the philosophy and the tools. The philosophy and processes are so unique that Hay House, the publishers, gave Derek the opportunity to share his message in his first book - The 10-Second Philosophy, and decided to do so after just one meeting, even though Derek was completely unknown in this arena at the time.

 

4. Where is it happening?

 

Saturday 18th October 2014 between 10am and 5pm

The Bentovin Room, 8 Ridgmount St, London, WC1E 7AA

 

5. How much does it cost?

 

£55 per ticket

 

It is your life, and maybe it's time to review it. Take action, go into TrueSelf, and set Standards, live your truth and excel!

Derek, The Standards Guy,  guides clients and audiences how to use ‘Standards’ (basis, criterion, levels, qualities and rules) to achieve immediate change in their lives. He is in row 9 on our Practitioners' List

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